My mums funeral…….. So I ticked of a list of things in my head as the 24 hours were getting closer slept well ( sort of) √ ( can’t find a tick symbol- so a square root will suffice) got up early enough (woken by phone) √ Managed to fit in breakfast & a … More Respectfully- exhausted & relieved
Just finished my cuppa- and reminded my mum always used to joke when I was with her. She seemed to think milk was some sort of poison, & say ‘not much milk for me- only a drop’. In fact shed prefer it black than too much milk. Anyhow I am the opposite I hate strong … More Baby tea
‘She’s a strong lady your mother’ said a carer to me last week ‘a fighting spirit’. But we all knew the conclusion and this time perhaps I didn’t want her to be strong, but relax- give way – which thankfully last Tuesday 12th Sept, she managed to do. So yet another funeral to organise- what … More And so what had to follow…..
Weeks are passing- but they appear to be going in slow motion. Time, thinking processes revolving around my mum. How she is , how much food or water being consumed. how much pain killers, is she comfortable, alert, asleep. Last week ( as seems to be the norm at the moment ) we made two … More Precious time